Anonymous asked: Easiest way to die?

Don’t even think that! Please, I mean it!!!! Remember that something good will come along; don’t do that, there are people who care about you and love you so much! If God put you in this world, He put you here for a reason. You have to fulfill a destiny, so don’t kill yourself. Don’t think of dying! Maybe life is hard for you right now, but please, talk to someone about it, don’t self-harm! Whatever is hurting you inside, maybe listen to music, dance, paint, or do whatever to put your emotions into it. If you need anything, I am here! :)

Anonymous asked: I need help with the fact that I regret getting an abortion more than anything, because the father and I are still in love and back then we couldn't have done it but now we have all the things we would've needed to support the baby, the baby wouldn't have even been 6 months yet..

Just remember that everything happens for a reason. :)

Anonymous asked: I was talking to this guys and i asked him who he wanted to hookup with and he said this like random new girl. W werent really close but the next day, he talks to me and as the conversation goes on I asked him how it was goign with the girl and he told me he was gonna try someone else, and weve been talking everyday ever since. I tough he liked me but he invited that girl to his sophomore party hes making; shes a junior. What should I do?

Boys can be confusing sometimes, haha. Do you like him back? If you do, just talk to him, or else you’ll regret it later!

Anonymous asked: So yeah, my situation is a confusing one. When senior year started for me at school, I bumped into this guy at an anime convention. it was like a fairytale. Two days later, we met again and found out that we had the same class together. After that, things just went insane. We shared our first kiss that same month, and on Halloween he said he had fallen in love with me. But there was a catch: about two weeks after we met, I found out he had a girlfriend. I was so confused, I felt like i was being played, but at the same time i felt like I was the only girl in the world to him. Time passed, and our bond with him grew stronger. She hated me. The beginning of February, he moved to another state. They broke up because of distance. We got together and I went out there to see him. he ended up dumping me on Valentines day, saying there was too much stress. He came back, and they got together again.we didn't speak for a month. Then the friendship rekindled, he said he couldnt stop thinking about me but didnt try anything because he thought I hated him. More time passed, and he moved back again. The same thing happened. After about a month of us being together, i went to go visit him again. things went perfectly. About a few days later, he moved back home. He cheated on me with her. I was crushed, but still in love with him. Now, he finally stood up for himself and dumped her for good. we got together the day after. But last night, he called me saying he was still in love with her and that he was going to overdose. He said he still had feelings for me though. I tried to assure him that everything was going to be okay, it was just the fact of how long they were together that it was going to hurt the first few days. But he would get much better after that. he wouldn't listen, and said he asked her to take him back and she refused. I ran all the way up to his house within the hour after he had hung up. Today, i called and asked him if he was feeling better, and he said yes. Said he would be out in half an hour. it's now been two hours, and still no call. I called his house, no answer. Is he just using me as a toy, or does he really love me? I don't know what to do anymore..

I think that he does has feelings for you, but he’s confused in between you two. You’re only going to get your heart broken if you stay with this boy, I think it’s better if you move on. Sorry for the late response!

Anonymous asked: so i used to be best friends with this girl two years ago. but last summer we fell apart. i tried EVERYTHING i could to hold our friendship together, but she was done with me, and moved onto the next bunch. she wanted to conform so bad, and i could see that. shes one of those girls that acts so innocent on the surface but is a real bitch. its just that when we were friends, i was actually happy. thats probably the ONLY time i was ever happy in my life. and we were so alike, and had so much fun together, and i still miss her, but obviously she doesnt care. ive told her how i felt, but she went around telling everyone that i was obsessed with her. and i wasnt. its just that ive lost so much in my life, that i didnt want to lose the only person that made me happy. but losing her made me sad. thats when i started cutting and got into a severe depression. i still miss her. and i dont know how to get over her. part of me hates what shes done to me & doesnt want to forgive her. but the other part just wants her to be my best friend again, even though itll probably never happen. and i honestly dont know why, out of everyone, shes the only one i cant move on from.

If she was a true best friend, she wouldn’t spread false rumors about you. Make new friendships, and I’m sure you’ll find someone that’s right for you and you’ll just forget her.

Anonymous asked: So, I am going ice skating this week and I am taking my lil cousins because they don't know how to Ice Skate. They thing is that I don't want to be the only one there with the both of them. and the thing is I want to go with the guy I like. & I don't know how to ask or how to bring it up ? What do I do/how do I do it. Help, please.

“This weekend i’m gonna take my little cousins to ice skate.. wanna come?” 

-Debora/fa-ashion/brunettehairdontcare 

Anonymous asked: So me and this guy like eachother, he lives like an hour away. Hes my guy cousins bestfriend, me and my guy cousin are close but i havent told him. About 5 days ago, i saw the guy i like go into a relationship. Yeah, it hurt but i didnt really care, he can do what he wants. The day he got a girlfriend, me, my cousin, and our family went to our summer house in maine. There, my cousin told me that the guy i like is only going out with that girl to make the girl he likes mad. I said oh, who is she? And he said some girl from their town.. i dont really know what to do. I havent talked to the guy i like, and i dont plan on it. Im not really sure what to think, but i just feel really dumb and used. What should i do? xx

PS. sorry if this was hard to follow haha

He seems like a player to me.. maybe move on or if you don’t wanna do that, then ask him who does he like or just talk more and flirt more and maybe he’ll open up/start liking you 

-Debora/L-a-p-i-s-l-a-z-u-l-i